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Male (54) looking for Male New York, New York, United States

I would like to say that I'm " Laid back", but the fact is that I'm a bit complex, but not so much that I'm troublesome. I at least believe it's not such a bad thing to realize, accept, and admit to not being perfect, then have the opportunity to work's the Buddhist way....isn't it? So if you are looking for one who's reached enlightenment and is serene beyond you're wildest dreams....oops! he's not me...sorry.

I am though, a sweet, loving, kind, and generous person. A work in progress is how I've always described myself. Slowly discovering my place in Buddhism, or not my place. ;)

I've been meditating for a while, and only recently have decided to deepen my practice. I'm looking for someone to share this path with. Not too sure what I'm looking for other than that. I guess I've accepted I have no control over anything, so that includes my love life, right?

So here I am, trying to right the wrongs, and cease the madness of searching for the perfect man. But 5hen again, what's wrong with a few warts? Okay, I'll expand on that and say that I'm certainly not looking for an ogre either. But then again my perfect man may very well turn out to be an ogre with whom I'll fall in love!

ANNOUNCEMENT: I'm organizing a Queer Sangha at New York Insight. Launching day is planned for Pride weekend. We and our allies will be marching. Larry Yang is going to launch Pride weekend for us. Please. Come and join us.

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EthnicityLatino / Hispanic
National heritagePuerto Rican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorOther
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureSmile
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants to RelocateNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Reality shows, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsHouse Hunters (domestic, but mostly international)
Dancing with the Stars ("Mira Quien Baila" on Telemundo)
Amazing Race (which I will go on with my new Buddhist husband)
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesI'll let this be something we find out about each other. We have to have something to talk about...right?
Music typesCountry, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Dance
Favorite artistsManet
Van Gogh

I know I'm being a jerk :)
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Satire, Science
Favorite booksLater...again, something to talk about
Idea of funCan fun be an idea? Well maybe... but the only thing I could come up with right now is roller coasters, and/or napping.
HobbiesExercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Cooking, Gardening


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Extreme sports, Playing dress-up, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trySky Diving
Bob Sled


Political viewsVery liberal
Goal in lifeFreedom

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerSome modicum of sanity
On the first dateI like to keep it simple. So perhaps a cup of coffee or tea, then figure out if we want to meet again.